Sex education is a very important matter, but the level of sex education received by people varies in different regions, probably due to different levels of education, religious beliefs, social culture and other factors. This has also led to many people being exposed to the wrong kind of sex education since childhood, and some people are even ashamed of the topic of sex and choose to avoid talking about it when they come across related topics.
Take men as an example, many men’s understanding of sex basically comes from pornographic movies on the Internet, which will give them a lot of unrealistic information and make them have many misunderstandings about sex. This will not only affect their future relationships with their partners, but will also affect the experience during sex.
In this article, I will reveal to you some of the misconceptions that men tend to have about sex, I hope it will help you and if you want to check out more sex related blogs, you can also check out the articles on ootyemo website.
Men always think a bigger penis is better
A very common misconception about men is that they often think that a bigger penis is better, or that women tend to prefer bigger penises. This has led to many people putting in a lot of effort in their quest for a larger penis, but so far there are no non-surgical modern medical techniques that can help achieve a natural lengthening of the male penis in adulthood.
A normal penis is between about 4.7 and 6.3 inches in length and 4.3 to 5.5 inches in girth, and any penis within this range is normal, and in addition, only the first third of the vagina has a large number of nerve endings, so most penises can satisfy a woman’s need for a sexual experience, and as long as you are able to maintain a normal erectile function, you will be able to make your partner feel pleasure.
Penetration is the hardest way to make a woman come
Many men have been misinformed by pornographic movies that inserting their penis into the vagina is the best means of making a woman orgasm, and some men even believe that it is the only way to make a woman orgasm, however the reality is that the vast majority of women are unable to orgasm through vaginal penetration, and penetrative sex may be comfortable, but it takes a lot more stimulation to make a woman orgasm.
It’s the clitoris that is the most important way to make a woman orgasm, and if you spend enough time and effort teasing the clitoris, making your partner orgasm will become less difficult. You can stimulate the clitoris through oral sex, stroking, or by adding sex toys, but I would most recommend using a sex toy, which is one of the easiest ways to get a woman to orgasm. Try the rose toy, it gives women intense clitoral sucking pleasure and no woman can use it for more than 5 minutes without having an orgasm.
Sex toys don’t replace you
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There still seems to be a misconception among some men regarding the use of sex toys in bed, they feel that these sex toys will undermine them in bed or replace them because sex toys are better at making women orgasm compared to them, but this is not the case.
Women love sex toys, there is no doubt about it, but that doesn’t mean that sex toys will replace men, because sex is about more than just getting pleasure, sex is also a way to maintain intimacy with your partner, sex toys are just soulless machines, what women really need is a collision between souls, to feel each other’s bodies and to enjoy every moment together.
There is no “correct” age for losing one’s virginity
Many men are influenced by the wrong social culture, they believe that sexuality and masculinity have a strong connection, if you haven’t had sex with a woman by a certain age, you will be shamed because you are still a virgin, and those men who have lost their virginity will instead brag about it to their friends around them, using their sex life as a kind of bragging capital.
This kind of thinking not only misleads many men, but also makes society always have unrealistic expectations of men, thinking that all men should maintain a strong sex drive and always be ready for sex. In reality, there is no right age to lose your virginity and the same goes for finding a partner, everyone’s experience is different, all you need to know is that when the time comes, you will naturally experience the beauty of love and sex.
The pull-out method is not an adequate way of birth control
With the advancement of technology, there are now very many contraceptive methods available, but there are still many men who believe that they can avoid pregnancy by simply pulling their penis out of the vagina before ejaculation. In fact, the withdrawal method still has a high risk of causing pregnancy because the male penis secretes prostate fluid when it is aroused, and prostate fluid may contain some semen, which may still pose a risk of pregnancy. So the best way to get pregnant is to wear a condom or take birth control pills regularly.